Phone conversations when dating
Listen to his voice, use your powers of observation and trust your intuition If you can’t get every question answered, what can you hope to discover about the guy at the other end of the phone? You are listening for red flags to keep yourself safe.In my 10 years of dating coaching, I have only had a couple of women tell me about a man who made them nervous.They’ve told me about their diabetes, sex addiction, failed relationships, and bitterness towards their ex who ruined them financially.They have let me know that they are newly separated and interested in casual relationships with multiple women.As you listen to him talk, you’ll learn about his language skills, intelligence and disposition.
What I have found over the past 10 years as a dating coach, and from my own journey to find my own husband, this can be trickier than you think.
My two matchmaker friends, Nicole of Compatibles and John of Tri-State Dating Service explain that phone interviews squash more potential matches than anything else.
They both want me to tell you not to “phone date” which keeps too many people from ever meeting.3.
Leave him wanting more with a short first phone call Let’s say the call is going well and you feel like you could talk to this man all night. You want to have something to talk about next time.
Plus, you want to leave him thinking about you and curious to know more.