Dating nice girls
Mingle2 is full of hot Nice girls waiting to hear from you. Russian, like to be creative and active, prefer to take a walk rather than watch TV, do something rather than cry about it( may cry yet a little ); gardening, art, travel... I've been single for a while now and want a serious relationship that is 110%...When it comes to dating, what do you think works best for attracting a man – and making him want to commit? Because you’ve outlined the central dilemma that most of my smart, strong, successful clients face: should I be a bitch or a nice girl? ” Sorry, but the world is grey and these are weak straw-man arguments that women use to defend why they need a man who is taller, smarter, richer, funnier, etc. Men don’t need women who are taller, smarter, richer and funnier, and the fact that women think they do – as if anything else is “settling” – is the main source of the problem. I feel like its bad karmic energy but I also feel like nothing is owed to anyone after 1 date, I shouldn’t have to break up with a guy that I am not dating.If you have boundaries, you won’t stay with him for four months without being his girlfriend. And if you want a shorter way to get the formula right, let’s consider what it takes for a man to do well with women. You don’t want a raging, difficult, selfish asshole. If you have boundaries, you let him know how he disappointed you and how he can please you better, instead of silently stewing that he unknowingly mistreated you. The majority of us are still under the illusion a bad girl is a gamble we can cash out on. These women will play straight arrows out in public, but once they get you behind closed doors, they unleash the beast.When I say good girls I mean girls who are good through and through – the kind of girl your mother wishes for you. Most women don’t know how great they have it being able to physically experience a deeper level of emotion than men.If they already have you, then they’ll settle for the thrill of the risk of losing you. Bad girls are never a certain-thing and that’s why they catch the interest of so many men. We like the concept of danger and bad girls are a type of danger we feel comfortable enough jousting with.Have you ever met a man who didn’t like action movies? Good seems easy to us, while bad seems more like a challenge; men love challenges. What we don’t realize is that we are targeting the easier prey.
When two individuals stop trying to impress each other, the relationship will surely falter.
We’re going to choose that other girl – the one that will screw with our heads and break our hearts. Men have managed to even incorporate the word "bad" into everyday language as a synonym for "sexy." Such as, “Damn. Sure, some men avoid gambling and taking any and all risk. Wimps will take any women they get because they’re simply happy a woman even started talking to them.
Even though we all know that choosing the good girl is the wise decision, we almost never choose her. Not all men want to gamble on a bad woman – we label these men mature and intelligent. There are plenty of bad girls who come across as good girls to the untrained eye.
We see fallacies like that all the time on this blog.
They reduce female behavior to a binary choice, when, in fact, behavior can never be compared to an either/or proposition.