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After a day or two of texting, I couldn’t stop myself. We flirted via text, and set up another meeting ASAP, even though Sparks was also dating someone before he has boarded that crazy flight with me. Security picked me up from the airport, and I truly felt I could not lead him on after experiencing such intense chemistry with Sparks—something I’d never felt with my boyfriend.
Whereas Sparks and I had instantly connected, since we were into all the same things—health, fitness, adventures, and silly sense of humor about life—Security and I just seemed worlds away, as stable as our relationship was.
After throwing down the gauntlet, he blew me off and walked away. I didn’t see fireworks, but I saw so many positive qualities.Over time, I saw Sparks could be childish, and ambitious as he was, it was not the right, healthy kind of drive.My now-boyfriend is mature enough to understand the ins and outs of life, taking it by the horns, but in a fun and responsible way."I boarded a plane to Chicago and, as fate would have it, sat down next to a guy we'll call Sparks. We parted ways with a hug and exchange of contact information, but as soon as I got in the taxi, I texted my closest friends to tell them I had met The One.We talked through the entire five-hour flight, and clearly shared the same lust for life. Only problem was, I had a boyfriend (let's call him Security) of two and a half years, with whom I was in a stable relationship back home.